I'm going through a difficult time in my life and just wonder if there can be any explanation in my Bazi.

I'm female, Born 5 July 1986 10.00pm.

Appreciate if any kind shifu can give me some guide how to move on.

So, what seems to bother you ?

Relationship issues and can't seem to find direction in career. Just feel I'm going around in circles the past few years. Is there anything wrong with my bazi?

nothing wrong.

tangfei wrote:


Hello Tangfei,

I am not a master, but would be glad to help you in my modest ways.

Would you mind describing what your difficult times would mean?

I can see that in your chart, you are badly controlled... all too hot. It makes you a very weak and trapped daymaster.

Are you in regular conflicts with your parents? or particularly, your dad?

There's potentially more problems in your chart but I will not mention it yet.
Let's see what we can do about them, not worry about them!

J

tangfei wrote:


Hello Tangfei,

I am not a master, but would be glad to help you in my modest ways.

Would you mind describing what your difficult times would mean?

I can see that in your chart, you are badly controlled... all too hot. It makes you a very weak and trapped daymaster.

Are you in regular conflicts with your parents? or particularly, your dad?

There's potentially more problems in your chart but I will not mention it yet.
Let's see what we can do about them, not worry about them!

J

I am the only child and my parents dote on me. In fact I think my relationship with my parents are the least of my worries. I married 2yrs ago but shortly after i was abused by my husband. I am trying to get a simple divorce but he refuse to let me go.

Tangfei,

That's very good to know, at least I know you got the 'control' factor out of the picture from yourself towards your parents.

Now if we were to look at your chart, it is a 'chain-control' system. As you do not like controlling (due to weak nature), you are naturally controlled by your spouse star.

Your spouse star, being DING on your hour pillar, is supposed to be depict a healthy relationship.
HOWEVER, with him beside you, and with you born in the peak of summer, will really see you 'weakening' and be at his mercy.
The base of your chart isn't helping you at all, but worsening the situation with a complete summer formation.

This spells severe weakening, potential illnesses and total mercy of you under your spouse star.
The savior would be, very likely, your kid, if you have children.
Do you have children? I hope you do, because thats the only solace I can see right now throughout your entire chart.

J

Hi Jae, Thanks for your comforting words, I do not have a child and I don't intend to have any with him as I cannot tolerate any abuse. Can I drop you a PM?

Hello Tangfei,

Please drop me a PM.

Look forward to hear from you.

J

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xu+yin+wu -fire season...I think iu will be suit to be a leader

strong and determine person like a weapon-sword geng!

have you seek legal advice ?

Hi George, I wish I could be a leader, but probably not in my current situation.

Hi C24680, Its hard to prove his abuse if there are no marks. Plus it will be a long and expensive legal process.

wait to pass this year will clash u dm...bad for u...remember ever elemnt can`t help if u are weak or strong with one exception:don`t clash the dm!u should see a big change in u life in 2016...u component will be symbolize by bing-shen which can`t compare with u dm geng-xu...wish u all the best