I am the only child and my parents dote on me. In fact I think my relationship with my parents are the least of my worries. I married 2yrs ago but shortly after i was abused by my husband. I am trying to get a simple divorce but he refuse to let me go.
That's very good to know, at least I know you got the 'control' factor out of the picture from yourself towards your parents.
Now if we were to look at your chart, it is a 'chain-control' system. As you do not like controlling (due to weak nature), you are naturally controlled by your spouse star.
Your spouse star, being DING on your hour pillar, is supposed to be depict a healthy relationship.
HOWEVER, with him beside you, and with you born in the peak of summer, will really see you 'weakening' and be at his mercy.
The base of your chart isn't helping you at all, but worsening the situation with a complete summer formation.
This spells severe weakening, potential illnesses and total mercy of you under your spouse star.
The savior would be, very likely, your kid, if you have children.
Do you have children? I hope you do, because thats the only solace I can see right now throughout your entire chart.
u should be a leader in u life with xu up to u...imainge a strong power...that will try to demolish u loke fire-bing,but will feed u...fire will strentch u resource earth,earth will ikmprove u metal...
xu+yin+wu -fire season...I think iu will be suit to be a leader
strong and determine person like a weapon-sword geng!
wait to pass this year will clash u dm...bad for u...remember ever elemnt can`t help if u are weak or strong with one exception:don`t clash the dm!u should see a big change in u life in 2016...u component will be symbolize by bing-shen which can`t compare with u dm geng-xu...wish u all the best